Ah, it is the big day for your best friend. Have you written your toast or are you going to play the gutsy move and just “see how it goes?” Well, to that I say, “Good luck to you!” For those of you who are playing it smart and need a little guidance so you don’t mess it up, here are a few tips for you:
First of all, consider how you met the groom. Was there an interesting story on how you met? What was the groom like way back when? Take the time to really contemplate all the details you can think of about the groom. You don’t have to make the whole toast heart-felt and mushy-gushy. Think of quick, funny stories. Now think about how you met the bride. What was she like at first? Are there any humorous anecdotes you could share?
At the beginning of your speech, be sure to thank the appropriate people hosting the ceremony. Introduce yourself and start with how you met the bride and groom. It is important to balance each topic on the bride and groom both. Throw in funny stories, however, make sure they aren’t humiliating. What you can find hilarious, they might find offensive. Include your thoughts of marriage and your well wishes for the couple.
Wrap it up with a few inspiring thoughts and congratulations. Raise your glass and toast… don’t forget to drink your own toast!
by: Candles and Such
